What you are experiencing is common: topical anesthetic sprays or creams like Lignocaine (Xylocaine/Lox 2%) can reduce sensitivity and delay ejaculation, but they may also reduce pleasure and sometimes affect erection quality. If these are not suitable for you, a commonly used alternative is Dapoxetine, taken 1?3 hours before intercourse, which helps delay ejaculation in many men without significantly affecting erection. In some cases, doctors may also consider daily low-dose antidepressants or recommend behavioral techniques such as the stop?start method, pelvic floor exercises, and counseling. Since you are also noticing erection reduction with sprays, it is important to evaluate for underlying causes like erectile dysfunction, anxiety, diabetes, or hormonal imbalance, so consulting a urologist or sexologist is advised before changing or combining treatments.

Difficulty lasting long during sex is a common issue and is often linked with stress, performance anxiety, lack of sleep, relationship pressure, or increased sensitivity. In some people, it may also be connected with conditions like anxiety, diabetes, thyroid problems, or unhealthy lifestyle habits. Because the causes can vary from person to person, the treatment also differs and should not be started without proper evaluation. Medicines should be taken only if advised or prescribed by your doctor. Many men notice improvement with regular exercise, better sleep, reducing alcohol or smoking, and learning relaxation techniques to reduce anxiety during intimacy. Pelvic floor exercises and improving overall fitness can also help build better control over time. Avoid taking sexual performance pills or online supplements without guidance, as some may contain harmful ingredients or interact with other health conditions. If this problem has been happening regularly for several months, affects confidence, or is associated with erection difficulty, it would be a good idea to consult a doctor or sex specialist for proper assessment and safe treatment options.