This is not a potency (erection) issue; it is a very common condition called premature ejaculation (PE). Potency refers to the ability to achieve an erection, whereas PE is about timing. You are not alone, and it is highly treatable. For treatment, medical options include: 1. Oral medications: SSRIs like dapoxetine or sertraline, taken daily or on demand to delay ejaculation. 2. Topical therapies: Anaesthetic creams or sprays containing lidocaine or prilocaine to reduce sensitivity. Behavioural techniques can also help. Please consult a healthcare provider to find the safest and most effective option for you.