My wife experiences severe pain and fear of penetration, and we have not been able to have intercourse for the past six months. What medications, creams, or treatments can you suggest to help resolve this issue?
Your wife?s symptoms strongly suggest vaginismus or dyspareunia. This is highly treatable, and I recommend consulting a gynaecologist. Common treatments include: Topical Creams: Prescribed lidocaine ointment can help numb the area to reduce immediate pain. Vaginal Dilators: Used progressively with water-based lubricants to help her body comfortably adjust to penetration. Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy: Specialised therapy to relax involuntarily contracting vaginal muscles. Counselling/Sex Therapy: Crucial for addressing the fear and anxiety associated with pain. Please avoid forced penetration, as it worsens spasms. A combination of physical and psychological therapy is highly effective.