I understand your concern. For premature ejaculation, medications like SSRIs (such as dapoxetine) or topical anesthetics are commonly prescribed. However, experiencing a lack of sexual enjoyment alongside this suggests there could be other underlying factors, such as hormonal imbalances (like low testosterone), stress, anxiety, or depression. Because of this, self-medicating is not recommended. I strongly advise consulting a doctor or urologist. They can help identify the exact cause and provide a safe, personalized treatment plan, which may include specific medications, counseling, or lifestyle changes to help you regain your sexual well-being.