Mild penile swelling after sexual intercourse can sometimes happen due to friction, minor irritation, allergy, or temporary fluid buildup and may improve with rest, gentle hygiene, loose clothing, and avoiding sexual activity for a few days. However, if the swelling is painful, severe, associated with redness, discharge, difficulty urinating, fever, or occurs after injury, it needs prompt medical evaluation. Avoid self-medicating with antibiotics or steroids without a doctor?s advice. A urologist or general physician can examine the area and decide whether treatment such as anti-inflammatory medicine, antibiotics, or other care is needed based on the cause. You can take an over-the-counter oral pain reliever like Ibuprofen (Advil/Motrin) or Naproxen. These are great because they treat both the pain and the swelling.

Erectile dysfunction is very common and highly treatable. The most effective first-line oral medications are PDE5 inhibitors, which include generic options like sildenafil, tadalafil, vardenafil, and avanafil. These medications work by increasing blood flow to the penis during sexual stimulation to help you achieve and maintain an erection. To ensure your safety, it is essential to consult a healthcare provider before starting these treatments. This is particularly important if you take nitrates for heart conditions, as they can interact. A doctor can help customize the best, safest plan to improve your sexual satisfaction.

To improve sexual stamina and duration, several effective options are available. Behavioral techniques, such as the 'stop-start' or 'squeeze' methods, and pelvic floor exercises (Kegels) can significantly help. For medical treatments, topical anesthetics like lidocaine spray or cream can reduce sensitivity to delay ejaculation. Additionally, oral medications such as certain selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), like paroxetine or sertraline, are often prescribed to increase duration. If erectile function is also an issue, phosphodiesterase-5 inhibitors like sildenafil or tadalafil may be recommended. I highly encourage discussing these options with a healthcare provider to find the safest and most effective approach tailored to you.